Latest Praise:
"Barry has been an incredible guide throughout the years for me, always holding a clear, loving space, graciously nudging me to find the answers to my deepest life and relationship questions. He so brilliantly gets me to the point where I find the answer from within and have a deep transformation on the spot. I am grateful for his vast wisdom and know he will continue to provide results for many. Open your heart wide and allow him to work his magic."
Brad A.
"Barry…! You taught Tracy and I some invaluable tools when it comes to understanding one another. Thanks largely to your intuitive, compassionate, and hard-hitting honesty in direction, Tracy and I forgave past hurts from previous issues, rekindled strong flames, easily embraced trust and gave ourselves to the other in marriage tonight. If you hadn't spent the time or energy, I can honestly say this wedding tonight would not have taken place. I'd like to lift you in praise and thank you for such excellence in mastery of your craft. Well done, and I am grateful for my wife. Thank you. Namaste brother."
Cary H.
Praise for 50 Ways To Love Your Lover:
"50 Ways To Love Your Lover skillfully and eloquently guides the reader into the discovery that we have direct access to the love and happiness we long for. Full of practical wisdom and inspired insight.”
Michael Bernard Beckwith
author of Life Visioning
“Barry Selby's book, 50 Ways to Love your Lover is a beautifully written, inspirational and practical guide for bringing more joy, life and love into our relationships. Barry shows us the power we have as individuals to actually be the source of and the cause of the joy in our relationships.”
Julie Ferman
Award Winning Matchmaker
Founder of CupidsCoach.com
"I'm roughly half-way through your book. I wanted to keep reading it, but at midnight I decided it was probably wise to go to bed. Anyway, I wanted to let you know that I love it. I find your words comforting. I've been single now for 12 years (with my ex-husband for 12 years before that, married for 7 of them), and you've basically put into your book what I believe to be true. Something that really hit home was the concept of being more free in a relationship."
Amy O'Brien
"Thanks for sharing your wonderful work. I have re-posted this share. to my page, Barry, as an example of AWayOfLove. Thanks for your insightful videos that awaken love within us and prepare us for receiving and giving love freely. What a great gift for all of us."
Marsha Jane Orr
AWayOfLove.com
Praise for Barry's Private Coaching:
"Barry…! You taught Tracy and I some invaluable tools when it comes to understanding one another. Thanks largely to your intuitive, compassionate, and hard-hitting honesty in direction, Tracy and I forgave past hurts from previous issues, rekindled strong flames, easily embraced trust and gave ourselves to the other in marriage tonight. If you hadn't spent the time or energy, I can honestly say this wedding tonight would not have taken place. I'd like to lift you in praise and thank you for such excellence in mastery of your craft. Well done, and I am grateful for my wife. Thank you. Namaste brother."
Cary H.
"Barry had a profound impact on my life when he was my guide. I have known him for many years and find his insight and wisdom to be centered in Truth — timeless and eternal. Thank you!"
Michelle S.
"I haven't known Barry long, and only in a peripheral way but I'd heard glowing raves about his work from other friends. He offered a complimentary consultation and introduction to his work, and I thought- what a wonderful gift, how can I say no to that? I met with him and it was such an instant feeling of warmth, understanding and comprehension that we chatted away as if he'd known me for years. His insights and recommendations were wonderful. I've never had a mutual understanding like that before with a teacher or therapist or advisor in my life. It was truly a wonderful experience and I urge you with a huge smile – if you've thought about going to see Barry and work with him – GO! Do it. If you feel his work is on your lines and have wondered if this is right for you. It IS.
His professionalism, warmth and support is unequaled in my experience. And that's what's true for me. Thank you Barry."
His professionalism, warmth and support is unequaled in my experience. And that's what's true for me. Thank you Barry."
Liisa L.
"Thank you for your insight and CLEAR VISION at Amazing Woman’s Day in San Diego … the Women LOVED you, but truly, your insight and understanding has SUCH value. We could have sat with your guidance and brilliant intuition for hours.. :)"
Elle F.
"Barry epitomizes the perfect blend of practical, spiritual, tangible and the intangible in relation to coaching. He comes from a gentle, loving, and friendly spirit that really speaks to women and allowed me to open up to him in a way as if I've known him forever. He is an attentive listener, and the insights he offered gave me real ways to redirect my energies. He helped me realize how to control only the things that I could control and to release that was merely holding me prisioner (when I didn't even realize it was). He has certainly impacted my journey, and I am confident there are countless more who will be blessed to have Barry impact theirs. With Light!"
Tammy G.
"Barry got me to a place where I saw I could let go of circumstances and the pressure to figure everything out. The result was an invitation to the ultimate journey of self-love where going inward is priority over reacting outward. Even before changing an external thing, I am able to find clarity and gratitude exactly where I am."
Noreen J.
"Much thanks to you last night for our conversation. I went to bed last night and noticed that my breathing was easier and freer. Like something had been lifted deep beneath my being! It was really extraordinary! What you have committed your life to is magical and you will be rewarded in due time."
Alicia P.
"Barry has a strong masculine presence and is able to offer his strength and support sometimes without even a word needing to be spoken. The space he holds is enough."
Emunah M.
"Barry is a well versed expert in his field. I have faith in his ability to coach men and women in the direction they need, in order to establish the relationships they want."
Aura W.

